"To Be with You" is a song by American rock band Mr. Big, released in November 1991 as the second single from their second album, Lean into It (1991). The ballad reached number one on the US Billboard Hot 100 for three weeks and topped the charts in 11 other countries, including Australia, Canada, Germany, and New Zealand.
The song was written and composed by Eric Martin during his teen years, with guitarist Paul Gilbert contributing to its melodic arrangements later on. Writing credit is also given to David Grahame, a songwriter working for the label at the time. The lyrics were inspired by a girl Martin knew when he was younger: "This girl had a lot of boyfriends who treated her like shit. I wanted to be the knight in shining armor, wanted to be with her. She wasn't having it. It never came to play."[4]
While in Gilbert's apartment at Yucca Street in L.A., he and Martin were laying out their compositions. Martin had a ballad called "To Be with You". Gilbert had his psychedelic rock song called "Green Tinted Sixties Mind". Both felt the two songs were strong enough to be included in their upcoming album, despite it being purely rock;[5] and true enough, these songs remained throughout the course of their career as a group and as solo artists.
Originally, "To Be with You" was not intended to be released as a single. But after it started getting radio play out of the blue, they had to release it. The band's Billy Sheehan told in an 1992 interview, "We never intended to release 'To Be With You'. We had another single. But some guy in Lincoln, Neb., just started playing the song, and the record started selling like crazy. It spread to Omaha and went all over the country."[6]
Critical receptionedit
Stephen Thomas Erlewine from AllMusic described the song as a "campfire-singalong ballad".[7]Larry Flick from Billboard noted that "headbangers get folky on this harmonious strummer". He added that "hand-clapping, sing-along chorus entices, while front man Eric Martin's voice has rarely sounded sweeter".[8] DeVaney and Clark from Cashbox called it "an unplugged, acoustic guitar and harmony sing-along single". They also said that Martin "sounds like the quintessential rocker and is backed by some excellent non-electric guitar-picking by guitarist Paul Gilbert, managing to sound very adept without an electric drill for a pick".[9] Janiss Garza from Entertainment Weekly felt that "this simple little ballad" is by far the best song on the Lean into It album.[10] Jonathan Bernstein from Spin wrote, "In a year sadly lacking in palpable power ballads, these third-raters rode their Trojan horse to pole position with one of the always-spineless genre's most puny entries, "To Be with You"."[11]
Music videoedit
The accompanying music video for the song was directed by Nancy Bennett and features the band performing in a railroad car.[12] The video changes from black and white to color around the halfway mark. Billy Sheehan told in an interview, "Even our video was done way-super-ultra-cheap. When we tell people how much we spent on the video, they can't believe it. We got this video together dirt cheap. To see it beating up Michael Jackson's million-dollar extravaganza on MTV is pretty amazing."[6]
Track listingsedit
7-inch single
"To Be with You" (LP version) (3:27)
"Green-Tinted Sixties Mind" (LP version) (3:30)
12-inch maxi
"To Be with You"
"A Little Too Loose" (live)
"The Drill Song (Daddy, Brother, Lover, Little Boy)" (live)
* Sales figures based on certification alone. ^ Shipments figures based on certification alone. ‡ Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone.
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^"Mr. Big's Eric Martin on "To Be With You", Getting the Band Back Together, and Power Rangers". Phoenix New Times. August 1, 2011. Retrieved March 28, 2019.
^"..::==Welcome to the RockSquad -- Eric Martin Mr. Big Interview ==::". Archived from the original on February 11, 2009. Retrieved April 20, 2009.
^"1992 Year-End Sales Charts" (PDF). Music & Media. Vol. 9, no. 51/52. December 19, 1992. p. 17. Retrieved January 30, 2020.
^"Top 100 Singles–Jahrescharts 1992" (in German). GfK Entertainment. Retrieved September 25, 2019.
^"Single top 100 over 1992" (PDF) (in Dutch). Top40. Retrieved April 14, 2010.
^"Jaaroverzichten – Single 1992" (in Dutch). MegaCharts. Retrieved September 25, 2019.
^"End of Year Charts 1992". Recorded Music NZ. Retrieved May 2, 2020. Note: RMNZ erroneously lists "To Be with You" as "Remedy" by the Black Crowes on both the weekly and year-end charts.
^"Schweizer Jahreshitparade 1992" (in German). Retrieved September 25, 2019.
^"Year End Charts: Top Singles". Music Week. January 16, 1993. p. 8.
^"Billboard Top 100 – 1992". Archived from the original on July 8, 2009. Retrieved July 30, 2010.
^Mayfield, Geoff (December 25, 1999). "1999 The Year in Music Totally '90s: Diary of a Decade – The listing of Top Pop Albums of the '90s & Hot 100 Singles of the '90s". Billboard. Retrieved October 15, 2010.
^"Gold-/Platin-Datenbank (Mr. Big; 'To Be with You')" (in German). Bundesverband Musikindustrie. Retrieved September 25, 2019.
^"Japanese digital single certifications" (in Japanese). Recording Industry Association of Japan. Retrieved August 24, 2022. Select 2015年6月 on the drop-down menu