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How our perceptions can lead us to misinterpreting events
2021-03-03 07:57 BY
I recently learned a valuable lesson about how our perceptions can lead us to misinterpreting events and profoundly affect our relationships.Not long ago, a
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Interracial Sex Tourism
2021-02-26 09:32 BY
It appears that the IR sex tourism market is alive and thriving. When I talk to white women about an IR vacation, they usually mention Jamaica. It has everyth
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I’ll Say It . . . I’m Bougie!
2021-02-23 08:35 BY
Today, as I sat exhausted, sweaty, and disappointed under the sweltering sun on a park bench next to Big at the Dominican Republic National Aquarium, I realized
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The Way We Weren’t
2021-02-12 08:55 BY
The other night, I had a wonderfully romantic dream about my high school crush. Though I haven’t thought of the boy in years, he’s always been the one infatuati
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The Marilyn Effect (or) Society of Reformed Floozies
2021-02-09 09:00 BY
For the second time this year, my friend Kim has had to tell a guy who offered to pay her for sex to get lost.Though Kim is no bombshell, she’s certainly real-w
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The Mathematics of Beauty
2021-02-03 09:18 BY says men on their dating site are more apt to reach out to women other men consider ugly rather than women universally considered pretty. Gals rated
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2021-02-02 09:27 BY
Okay, so maybe that headline is hyperbolic. Unless you’re one of those sickos who gets off on hurting people, no one is really thrilled about those soul crushin
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Much Ado About Crackness
2021-01-29 08:46 BY
No I haven't given birth yet... OK, so that's out of the way until I get the usual daily texts, emails, and phonecalls... Oh the joys of being about to pop!Anyh
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Jaysus the big three-oh is approaching
2021-01-28 09:42 BY
Yesterday was the first of July and when I acknowledged the date, a tremor of fear went through me. "Oh feck! I'm 30 in 27 days!" I wailed to the boyf. He chuck
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Being Grateful vs. Settling for Less
2021-01-27 00:23 BY
My almost-boyfriend Mr. Cis helping me move apartments today. My new apartment is 2.5 times larger than my current furnished studio with a door on the bedroom,a
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And it begins...
2021-01-20 07:13 BY
“Me Time” The Time Between RelationshipsCan Men and Women Be Just Friends?Inventive9 LoveawakeAre You Neutering Your Man?Get Ready, Get Set…Midlife DatingAtt
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Same Love
2021-01-20 04:59 BY
"Tell you?""You are married, right?" I said."But you knew. I figured you knew." John said."Uh-huh. Right. Of course I didn't.""But I'm wearing a ring.""How many
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Loving God
2021-01-20 04:58 BY
Oh boy, I can remember the pain of holding it together for that conversation. If I were the type of girl who cried, I would have ran off for a good cry right th
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