What a crazy year 2020. Our physical and mental health was brutally attacked. 2021 is full of hope and alertness at the same time. This article is totally for men who are planning to resume their normal healthy dating with women in 2021. What’s new and what to do to make things work in 2021. Let’s sort it out.
1. Attitude
The first tip for men that want to find a date in 2021 is to build a proper attitude towards women. Some guys have a lack of respect towards girls, which is not right at all. Long gone are the days when women were considered as potential housewives that suffered from rudeness from men.
Nowadays, girls/women are self-sufficient and it is quite a disputable question whether women need men more or vice versa.
By the way do you know when to call a female girl and when a woman? Check this article:
Girls vs Women: when it is proper to call her a girl and when a woman?
Summing up the “attitude” tip, those guys that put themselves above women are in real trouble.
2. Modern Dating
In our rapid and busy world the dating itself has also transformed. Work, gym, classes, online courses, hobbies, etc, take almost all our time. We have to find small spots in our schedule to conduct a date. Sometimes we have more communication in messengers and less in person.
Doesn’t matter how busy you are you should definitely arrange real offline dates. Visit different locations: cafe, cinema, zoo, river bank, sports. In different places people open up from different sides. You should get used to being next to each other, cause if you are serious in your intentions this will be quite often.
Since you don’t want to spoil your relationship you should be aware of modern dating rules.
Here is the useful article: 12 dating red flags one cannot ignore. It gives useful tips for men and women about things you should and shouldn’t do when you are building your relationship.
3. Developing Relationships
Obviously you should realize what direction your relationship goes. Nobody wants to waste such a precious time. Therefore, try to understand what your girlfriend expects from you. If you are looking for the same keep doing that. Although, if you want just to have fun, but she is looking for a serious relationship, be honest with her in the first place.
Also, it is important to keep the natural pace. You should have a nice timing for your first, second and the third date. Men should know when exactly they should say their first “I love you”, “I want you to meet my parents”, “let’s live together” and of course “will you marry me?”.
Here is an absolutely amazing article: How long between the first date and wedding. It is based on serious social researches that suggest perfect timing for all the stages of your relationship.
4. 2021 Online Dating as a result of 2020
2020 taught us to move a large portion of our usual life online. Plenty of people switched to a remote job, online education and communication.
No wonder that online dating grew exponentially in 2020. And this will continue in 2021 for sure.
People were isolated in their houses and flats. But we are social creatures and badly demand other people. So, some of us use online dating sites to satisfy our needs to communicate with women.
Moreover, many men discovered the world of international online dating. The most popular trends were Asian dating and Russian & Ukrainian dating. Why not? Simultaneously all men and women around the globe appeared in the same situation. Why not get connected via the Internet, right?
If you ever tried online dating or just curious, check this rather interesting article: 7 online dating trends we should expect in 2021. The author analyzes the previous years in online dating and provides smart predictions for 2021.
5. Relations Handling
The last but not the least is the way we handle and maintain our relationship with a woman. As it was mentioned before girls have equal desires and opportunities that we must not limit. Though, both have to invest their time and efforts to keep a healthy relationship.
However, when you have a conflict situation, I’m pretty positive that it’s a men’s responsibility to handle it properly. Disagreements and fights are the normal part of your relationship with your girl. And you should be cool about it, while she may be more emotional. It’s just the way they are. Stay calm and positive, it’s your year!
