Knowing how to ask a girl you like out can be overwhelming, especially if you don’t know this girl very well or if you fear rejection and embarrassment. Some girls like overly romantic gestures and some just don’t – that’s why you’ll need to find a cute way to ask a girl out. You’ll also need to find a way to show a girl that you care enough to invite her to a nice night out.
However, sometimes ticking all the boxes can be tricky, so take a look at our list of ways to ask a girl you like out. Hopefully, you’ll find something that makes sense to you!
Keep it simple and ask her out in person
Some girls appreciate straightforwardness and that’s why the best way to ask them out is by being direct. Don’t beat around the bush and don’t be coy, once you two are alone, ask her out. She will like that you did it in person and that you were so open about it. So, that is where you’ll immediately score some points!
Simply give her a call
Another pretty simple and straightforward way to ask a girl out – by giving her a call. In this day and age, this is an easy and pretty standard way to ask your crush out. However, don’t be lazy and just send her a text, this will look as if you’re not trying much. Instead, give her a call and ask her out personally, she will appreciate this much more!
Send her a letter or a note
From simple to romantic in no time. Handwritten letters are almost instinct, however, they are still one of the most romantic and thoughtful ways to ask a girl out. Not only will a handwritten letter show her your creativity, but it will also show her that you really care enough to take time and write the letter yourself. There’s no way that she can refuse you after a letter.
If, however, a letter is not your style, a simple note will be equally effective. Send or pass her an old school note where you ask her to tick the box if she wants to go out with you or to put an X if she doesn’t. This is certainly a cute way to ask her out. And be cool if she puts an X.
Send her or get her flowers
Flowers are always the way to go. A very cute and romantic way to ask a girl out. You can order flowers online or you can personally give her flowers. If you’re going to order flowers online be sure to include a nice card that has you asking her out.
Find out what kind of flowers she likes and make sure to get her those. Also, be aware that she can be allergic to some flowers so try to stay away from those otherwise say goodbye to that date! Flowers are probably the most successful way to ask a girl out, you can never go wrong with flowers.
Try with food and drinks
It is said that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, but what about a woman’s heart? Can you get there with food too? The answer is yes! There are several cute ways to ask a girl out that feature food and drinks. One such way includes chocolate and you asking her out. Send her a box of chocolates and include a nice note where you’re asking her out – there is no way she won’t like this, I mean it’s chocolate!
Other ideas include cupcakes or sweet treats. And what will make her want to go out with you is if you yourself put in the effort and bake her some sweet treats. This also works with virtually any food she likes not just sweets.
On the other hand, if the girl you’re crushing on loves coffee, then there you have it. Buy her coffee and ask her out. Or write a question on a cup of coffee asking her out.
Music and singing
Regardless of whether you can sing or not, it’s effort what counts here, sing her a song and ask her out. This may sound cheesy but it’s also very original. This will also show her that you’re playful and that you don’t take yourself very seriously.
However, if you know how to play an instrument, don’t be afraid to serenade her with some nice tunes. This is a very cute way to ask a girl out, she will definitely feel special. You can also learn to play her favourite song or maybe you can sing it too. This way you will woo her for sure.
Ask her out on a special date
Asking a girl out on any special date you have coming up can be super nice. Especially if it’s her birthday. Knowing her birthday date will for sure give you points, but asking her out on her special day will guarantee you a date with her!
Similarly, asking her to be your girl when the clock strikes midnight on a New Year's Eve is very cute and romantic. Choose any date you feel appropriate and ask her out, be brave!
Try to write her a poem
You’re probably laughing just now, but hear me out. You don’t need to be Shakespeare to write a poem. The poem doesn’t even have to be a real poem, you can write her a couple of nice and funny lines that mean something to both of you – it’s the thought that counts! It can be a poem about you asking her out, or something really cheesy and romantic.
Don’t be shy, be goofy and she’ll appreciate whatever you’ve written in your poem, plus, one day it will be a nice story and memory!
Asking a girl you like out shouldn’t be a task, it should be a thoughtful gesture that will make her see that you care and are interested in her. Don’t be afraid of rejection either, be brave and take control – invite the girl you like out. So, guys which one of these tips works best for you?
