There is a story: one year autumn, a group of swans came to an island of swan lake. They flew in from the far north, ready to go to the south for the winter. The old fisherman and his wife lived on the island, to see this group of visitors from outer space, very happy, take out the seeds fed to chickens and fish fed the swan.
If winter comes, the group of swan did not continue to fly south. Freezing the lake, they cannot get food, old couple just open the cottage to let them in the house heating and feeds them, until the next spring thaw the lake. Day after day, year after year, every winter, the old couple have such devotion of love. Finally a year, their old, left the island, the swan also disappeared. But they are not to fly to the south, but starved to death during the second year of the lake to freeze.
Story of the fisherman couple of swan as they love their children every possible way to caress, tube eat under control, and it is "day after day, year after year" devotion of love, people can not help but to sigh: "what a good couple, how lucky the swan!" Swan tragic end, tell us, however, it is the fisherman couples that too much love, addict swans in the carefree life of ease, formed the inertia, lost the instinct of life and survival foundation, unable to adapt to the environment, finally was engulfed by the changed environment!
In real life, how many parents in the rest of my life to create a comfortable and easy and comfortable for children love nest! Children hours, holding in his hand fell, in his mouth was afraid of, children to dare not to the moon, stars don't let the child with a little bit of housework, eat a little bitter, a little tired, let the child lived a life "clothing to hand, foot" master; Child big, busy for them to get a security, good career not bask in the rain shower, thought to leave them with a rich heritage, even by myself to eat bitter tired also willingly...
This is a typical "fisherman couple" parents and their broad selfless love! However, think of the end of the swan, can we still love this respect? Actually, this kind of "will" of love, this kind of blindly to create a comfortable and easy and comfortable, love is the "trap" of life.
Into the "trap", in addition to rely on and inert, they had nothing. Once in the life "the lake to freeze", where their end never better than a swan. People not only needs love, but when this gift of love mutates into a kind of happiness, a kind of do everything to caress, it ceases to be love, but a can kill people gentle knife!
