Matthew Davies Discusses Conversation Starters to Get the Most Out of Networking Events

Introduction

Networking is not at all tough for extroverts as they love to talk to almost everyone they meet. But this is not true for other people such as introverts as they find it difficult to start a conversation with strangers. According to Matthew Davies, even introverts can learn to communicate well some practice.

The Ways

Here are some common networking conversation starters:

1. Just saying ‘Hello’ - The most common and easiest way to start a conversation with someone is to offer a handshake and say ‘Hello’ and then introduce yourself with a smile. This process of starting conversation shows your confidence in meeting new people and your interest to talk and know about the person.

2. Complimenting - Another great way to start a conversation with someone is complimenting them as everyone in the world loves to get a compliment about themselves. So, when you need to start a conversation with someone in a networking event, the best way is to find something to compliment them. Some good ideas are – ‘Nice dress! Where did you get them?’, ‘Yum, that drink looks good, what is it?’ and so on.

3. Talking about sports - Almost all people like to talk about sports, especially cricket and football. You can certainly take this advantage to start a conversation with someone in the network. You can say something like – ‘Hey! Did you catch the game yesterday?’. Again if you see a group of people is talking about last night’s game and you need to join the group and start a conversation with them then you can say – ‘Are you talking about last night’s game?’ and then it will certainly become easy to start the conversation in the group.

4. Talking about the work and bonus - Another most common networking conversation starter, especially in the office environment is talking about the work. For example, when you need to talk to a new employee in the office, you may  ask them – ‘Hey! How do you like the office?’. Similarly, when you need to start a conversation with someone in a meeting or conference room most people ask – ‘What brings you to this program or office or event?’.

During the time of the festival, employees usually talk about the bonus. So, at that time you can easily start a conversation with your colleagues and the common way to start a conversation during those times is to ask – ‘Hey! Did you get your bonus?’ or ‘Have you heard anything about our bonus this time?’.

Conclusion

If you want to get the most out of the networking events you need to mix and mingle with the networking group and start a conversation effectively. The tips suggested above are some useful ways to start a conversation with anyone. Matthew Davies suggests you also maintain a friendly body language when speaking to people as it will help you to create a good impression. Also, try to be an active listener and offer suggestions if you can help someone.